This is what your site said about sand / gravel:
"There are pros and cons to using gravel. Axolotls have a nasty habit of getting small-sized gravel in their mouths, and occasionally swallowing it. It is possible to train them to take food at the surface or from your hand. For convenience most people prefer to feed them sinking food, so gravel-swallowing could be a problem, unless it's large (much larger than pea size). If you use an external filter like me, gravel tends to let debris accumulate in the tank, and so the filter has a hard time keeping the the bottom clear of solids. Since axolotls are messy, the filter may have its work cut out to deal with the excrement and waste food that accumulate in gravel. If you do use gravel, it's advisable to siphon the waste out of it - a "gravel cleaner" is ideal for this purpose.
I recommend pebble-sized gravel, about 2 cm or greater in diameter. Alternatively, sand is also a good substrate, as it will not clog the digestive tract if ingested. It has been my experience that axolotls can't "grip" the bottom of a glass tank. This can be somewhat stressful over time. Plastic tanks don't suffer from this problem so much because no plastic is as smooth as glass.
The gravel used in the photographed aquarium is an "aggregate", coated with a polymer to prevent it from leaching minerals into the water. It comes this way and there are many types and sizes available."