G'day Heather
I, too, have heard/read comments that imply that the size of the tank can dictate an animal's growth. But truth be told, this is just an old wives' tale.
The reason why some people see truth in this is because if you were to house an animal in a tank that is clearly too small for it, i.e. one that minimises locomotion, it will eventually die. Why? Because it cannot move around for starters, nor can it obtain food. Also, the toxicity in the tank will reach a dangerous point. Poor husbandry is one of the biggest factors that result in death. Stress also plays a crucial role in housing. Increased stress will mean that the animal will let down its defenses and become more susceptible to pathogens, whether they are virulent or not.
To put it simply, your axolotl will continue to grow so long as you feed it; irrespective of the size of the tank. But, obviously it will peak at its maximum size.
Oh, by the way, I think the fish that you're thinking about is the common goldfish
Jay.
P.S. There is an article called the "Specific Growth Rate and the Level of Energy Metabolism in the Ontogeny of Axolotl,
Ambystoma mexicanum", by
I. G. Vladimirova, S. Yu. Kleimenov, T. A. Alekseeva, and L. I. Radzinskaya. It's worth the read.