and i havnt changed the water since i got it but i am really trying to do it,
"Try? There is no "try". There is "Do" or "Do not" - Yoda
Forgive me Star Wars nerds (bigger nerds than me, i probably got the quote wrong, but close enough for illustrating my point to Michael)
A water change only takes a few minutes - get up 10 minutes earlier, go to bed ten minutes earlier - whatever it takes. I know we are busy people these days, even a 13 year old, but Michael - are you busier than the president of the USA? No, you are not. And does the POTUS have the same amount od hours per day that you do? Yes, he does. He is just far more organised than the rest of us (or at least his staff are)
Ok, we dont have the same resources as POTUS, but we can organise ourselves enough to free up 10 minutes for a water change.
Second point - Please answer the questions you have been asked - if you need to get a water test kit etc, then so be it - mow some lawns man! Get some pocket money.
Owning an animal is a responsibility, we can't let things (excuses) get in the way of taking proper care of them.
Now, it might seem i am having a crack at you, i'm not. Think of us as your unreasonable freinds.
We are on your side, but we wont accept excuses for not looking after your axie properly, so when some of the very smart people above have given you good advice and asked really good questions - don't come back with a reason why you can't do it - think of ways that you could do it.
Bren - your unreasonable friend