Please help emergency

[Bryanna]

So my ex has had custody of our axolotl for the past year and a half and has taken very awful care of her. He hasn't been keeping the temperature the right way, I don't even know if he has done an ammonia test lately and I am seriously worried about her. I need to find a good home for her because she shouldn't go through her life like this.

Please message me back asap

[Blackbun]

Is your ex using your precious axolotl as some kind of emotional hold over you? Best thing to do is talk to him. Maybe he needs educating in the husbandry. If you know he's not got the temperature correct, you could explain how to do so and the consequences for the little animal if it's not. I'm not sure the ammonia is an issue as he's managed to keep him alive for quite some time. Best thing to do is talk. That is listening and speaking without raised blood pressure or point scoring. Otherwise, you need to prove negligence, collect evidence and regain custody via animal cruelty.