I kiss my boas every day. Don't knock on it. Also, I've eaten an earthworm. Protein.
Anyway, if you can't stand an unavoidable fact of keeping aquariums - water invertebrates - then I'm surprised you can even stand living, considering all of the mites and other things that humans live with on a daily basis. Ever heard of Demodex? It's a family of mites that live on humans, particularly in eyelashes, eyebrows and pores. Enjoy your next nights sleep, with the mites in your bed.
Tiny creatures are a part of every system, from your own home to your aquarium! You're only doing harm to your tank by freaking out over them. As Kaysie said, you now have to repair what you have done and do some very careful cleaning, and you have most certainly ruined your cycle, regardless of you moving your water and your filter, especially since you already stated that you took out 50%.
I will call you paranoid. You know what I do? I'm keeping my axolotls in a tub of cold water. That's it. I keep it clean, they eat my worms, I don't worry about a thing. Very simple, very stress-free. It's simpler than you think it is.
Well thanks. I always knew that forums tended to be harsh, but this is a bit too much. People are fast to point out what you are doing wrong, never really answer the question until you redirect them at the matter at hand, even sometimes just skimming through the post and not noticing that their questions could be answered in the first post above. Hell I'm sure you are probably just skimming through and thinking "oh I get the gist"
Then there is people using sarcasm left and right when you are just worried for the well being of your animals and go the extra mile to seek help from others.
Because instead of advice you get this.
I am aware there are many things I do wrong, but I'm sure no one was perfect when they first began. And everyone made simple mistakes like these more or less.
Paranoid. Yes I am. Because I care. I deal with sick rescue animals all day, in the shelter and sometimes at home when I bring them here. You would be paranoid too eventually. I care about my animals more than I care about myself, I sat up and stayed awake till 5 am, just because I knew a fish had dropsy and tried to keep him company. FOR A FISH, which I know many think they are stupid animals, many people probably think I was stupid to stay up that long. But I find them to be very rewarding creatures to keep. Especially the oh lets stick 'em in an unheated vase betta fish.
And I'm sure there are things that disgusts you as well, it's only human to hate certain things and like others. I was using humor above and it was in no way there to incite mockery. But to lighten things up.
There are many things that make me hate insects in general, but did that stop me from to feed the lotl a live earthworm? No. Did it stop me from buying blood worms? (which I'm allergic to) No. Or hand feeding mysis shrimp? No.
Do you know that I had to go to the next town just to get earthworms?? Because I knew it was healthy for my lotl and they would like it? I know many people who aren't as dedicated as I am, who is lazy and perhaps skips a water change or two.
I try to overcome my fears. My disgusts.
I stuck my hand in the infested tank to clean and siphon everything up in-spite of being disgusted.
I am not a terrible human being just because I am disgusted of certain things, it's only natural. One of my rescues was a dog that pooped worms... and yeah that is disgusting but I took care of it. Pulling worms out of a dogs butt. Imagine. Now he has a family that adopted him in Barcelona.
So yeah my disappointment in these forums which many people spoke so highly of cannot even be expressed by words. I gave this forum so many chances, I tried not to take it heartily. But I guess I should have suspect as much when people wish to earn likes and rep and not care so much about helping. Or those who are donors are the big dogs, and anything a new member says is worthless because they cannot contribute yet to the forums.
I agree that people who are NEW in the hobby deserve not sugar coated words but sometimes a little understanding. New is not a synonym to stupid. But simply inexperienced, thus where (technically) you guys come in.
I usually don't ask unless I can't find the information or I have a specific question that I want to hear people's opinions about. People said nematodes are dangerous some don't. So I didn't risk it. Is it that bad? Is it deserving of your sarcasm?
If I must recycle then I shall do it again, bucket method this time while I keep my lotls in a tub. Like you said.
Anyways, if your intention was to get me upset in such a manner than I must congratulate you.
Of course in this post I exclude those who actually helped me and calmed me down when I was paranoid or fretting of having done something wrong. Which is hardly a handful of them.
I made a mistake which isn't likely to happen again. I use bleach to disinfect tanks when I get new rescues, the method used is bleach, rinse rinse, airdry and then rinse, sundry. I am aware of the danger. If I give myself more work then it's my deal. If I make it harder for myself then well... the consequence lies with me. My lotl is now in a tub and he probably won't be returned into the main tank for a few weeks.