When I had a male too, I tried both ways:
If the female was introduced to the male's tank, the male started his courtship but the female was frightened from him and tried to swim away.
If the male was introduced to the female's tank, the female was aggressive to the male.
So I think it' up to you which way you do, but when you do, you should always watch them to avoid injuries.
Or in case you keep them together, every newt must have an own refuge.